Before you get angry

Before you get angry, please inhale, take a deep breath five times, and then a long exhale for 5 times. And then speak. When you he has a problem, may wish to write a letter to tell him, I believe you are in the process of writing letters, they have first peace otherwise depressed mood has been eased. May sometimes finished writing the letter is no longer angry. Letter wording think first let you calm. Letter to communicate this way with less verbal conflict, some communication to make your problem is solved with the most sensible way to quarrel or the Cold War, it will no longer instead.

When you wronged may wish to directly tell him what you think, let him know your real thoughts, you actually want to do this, you actually need him to do. Do not always let him guess your mind, because your mind is really hard to guess. Not all the love people have the kind of interoperability between the sixth sense. If he could not guess your mind do not be angry, because in fact, you do not know him guess what you are thinking how long how many brain cells wasted.

You may wish to sad when your mind first told him, maybe he is not a good way, but at least the people you love will give you comfort. Sometimes he will tell you directly wrong, do not get angry, he order hello, he give you a guide on the point of view of just standing on the sidelines, so you calm down, you may feel that his approach is very good, Even if not feasible but also understanding his mind. In turn, found him slightly wrong when we must care for him, and pay attention to his brow, and pay attention to his mood. To understand him, even if not understand also trying to understand it.

Might as well tell him before you decide your decision, which is respect for his performance. Maybe he will not agree and respect for you, but it would certainly pleased. If we just have to agree to congratulate you, turn your happiness a bit advanced. When he made the decision, not too much intervention, to give him as much space. Believe me, Although you love each other, but still full of individuals, so let his own decision. Even if you do not agree, it is also not in his face excited to tell him, encourage him! Then tactful give him some advice. Do not underestimate your capacity to love in the face of suffering, do not because of their depressed relocated sin to him. He was not easy, and like you, he is facing difficulties, he will have to take care of what you think, in fact, he even harder. With him to work, believe you can solve anything. Do not go alone to face difficulties, because no one wants to own lover alone to face tough spent with difficult and to enjoy happiness is as important, regardless of the face of what I believe to be two people together.

You feel when you love without passion, may wish to review their own, what you do for your sake? Boring now is not your reasons? How long has it been since you did not send him a small gift? When did you last do not for any reason, pro-him? You have a long chat with him, talk? How long have you did not invite him to dinner or watch a movie? Do not always feel that he is not love you, do not have carefully will mature, love, love will grow up, there is no immutable love. Do not pay too much attention, do not always calculated.